Advice for Lesbian, Bi and Queer Women

Over the last 5 years, I have experienced just about every pitfall, stereotype, complication, question, and polyamorous nightmare you can imagine.

Living together means countless nights scrolling Netflix, so why not get innovative?

From butches to femmes, pet lovers to culinary queens, there’s something here for everyone.

Lesbian dating is different on each coast: NY Lesbians Bitch, LA Lesbians Pitch. 

Hours 11-12: We’re Filing for a Joint Bank Account

These queer Latinas fly on the regular and know what to keep in mind when it comes to travel.

Why settle for a BFF costume when you can make it truly WLW?

She won’t ever know you forgot. And we won’t tell. 

Don’t show up empty-handed.

Size totally matters when it comes to hair tools… 

A healthy sex life is attainable for everyone; we just have to talk about it. 

The only thing that feels better than a hitachi wand is putting queer money back into queer businesses.

Valentine’s Day shouldn’t be a day of feeling less than. And it won’t be for her. Especially not with the giant cookie we plan on making.

One of the most amazing gifts I have ever received was a book my girlfriend had made for me. She titled it, “My Reasons Why” and it included all the reasons she loved me.

One of the awesome things about being queer is that it frees us from certain social expectations. When we do make stereotypically heteronormative life moves, like getting married or becoming parents, it’s more likely to feel like a conscious choice rather than the fulfillment of some predetermined script. 

Both addiction and queerness can be shrouded in shame as the messaging feels the same: there’s something “wrong” with me.

8 Creative Queer Ways To Celebrate Thanksgiving.

Holiday time can be frustrating and difficult if you are transgender and don’t have a supportive family. But it doesn’t have to be impossible.

Stick to your boundaries and honor your needs, and you’ll be on track for a happier holiday at home. 

Two people can definitely fit in a single sleeping bag *wink wink*.

There is no need to throw on some low rise jeans and go as Shane from “The L Word” for the fifth year in a row. I got your back, girl. And I have the perfect costume ideas that will ensure you show up dressed to impress (your ex).

Mercury stations retrograde on the 26th, inviting you to reassess, reevaluate, and review.

Cancer season is here, bringing some deep emotions and the need for all of us to spend time focusing on self-nurturing.

Read on to learn more about what the cosmos have in store for you this month.

“I wish everyone would get rid of this idea that being coy is sexy. It’s not sexy. You’re just playing games and manipulating people. It’s okay to play cool and hang back, but don’t do it just to manifest mystery.”

“The sad thing is that there are couples who gave up on the love they had and didn’t keep fighting. That made me realize I will never be that person and give up.”

“There’s a cultural stigma about infertility because as Latinas, we’re often raised to believe we’ll be mothers, and that it should come naturally. We’re pressured or asked constantly if we’ll have children.”

Here are nine Black-owned businesses to support not just right now, but always.

“Be kind to yourself. MS can be frightening and overwhelming. Know you’re not alone and there’s a beautiful community of MSers online ready to help.”

Sure, Valentine’s Day is about love, but mostly, it’s about candy.

Jealousy in polyamory is a common concern. How your own unique heart navigates it may determine whether polyamory is a good choice for you. 

Anna Joy, who is based in the US, was facing the prospect of a winter snow storm. Meanwhile, I sat in the Australian summer heat, surrounded by the sounds of the morning birds chirping. 

We may have left 2020 behind us, but the year left many of us devastated.

If you’re by yourself this year but want to express your queer AF holiday cheer, here are a few ways to make the yuletide gay.

Here are some of our favorite sustainable gifts from Queer owned or associated businesses to give this December. 

Extended time spent at home means that we’re locked into our screens more than ever, and social media has become the place we turn to for, well, everything.