Advice Columns

Over the last 5 years, I have experienced just about every pitfall, stereotype, complication, question, and polyamorous nightmare you can imagine.

Lesbian dating is different on each coast: NY Lesbians Bitch, LA Lesbians Pitch. 

One of the awesome things about being queer is that it frees us from certain social expectations. When we do make stereotypically heteronormative life moves, like getting married or becoming parents, it’s more likely to feel like a conscious choice rather than the fulfillment of some predetermined script. 

8 Creative Queer Ways To Celebrate Thanksgiving.

Holiday time can be frustrating and difficult if you are transgender and don’t have a supportive family. But it doesn’t have to be impossible.

There is no need to throw on some low rise jeans and go as Shane from “The L Word” for the fifth year in a row. I got your back, girl. And I have the perfect costume ideas that will ensure you show up dressed to impress (your ex).

Wearing mascara? It’s going to streak.

Something just *clicked.*

How I learned to get a GRIP.

Be. A. TEASE. For we all want what doesn’t ~come~ easily.

Did you feed your cat Doritos? I did.

You need a firm hand in whipping your dating profile into shape.

It all started as an innocent morning.

Stop stealing her clothes. You’re not sisters. You’re lovers.

In the place of casual sex, what you now have is conversation.

The best things in this life are FREE.

Soft-boiled eggs are the unsung hero of faux domestication.

Be safe, but don’t apologize.

Creativity loves alone time.

Softball fields are teeming with lesbians.

Meet the 8 classic lesbians, you’ll always find at the lesbian bar! Every single day of my life (even when the traffic sucks and the bagels are stale and the […]

Men don’t know what to do with black lipstick.

Let’s talk about bad sex.

Ask the girl out! Rejection can’t kill you.

“It’s like, if you’re going to buck society’s expectations to date the gender you really want to, why not go all out and create the exact relationship you want?”

Is it just me, or do lesbians have a genetic predisposition to pining?

We’re all stunning. Especially during Pride month.

It’s time to get your life together!

The crazy things we put ourselves through to have sex!

Let her be wild.

Life is scary. Flirting with women is even scarier.

A sexual woman must honor her sexual prowess.

Lesbians, this is a HUGE undertaking.

“I talk so much about queerness, especially teenage experiences as a queer person.”

Everything you’ve ever wanted to know (but been too afraid to ask) about dildo’s.

If you feel that you have been discriminated against because of your sexual orientation and/or your gender identity/expression, it is important to report the incident.