advice for lesbian women

So what does this empty space mean? Does it mean you’ve fallen through the cracks?

Be safe, but don’t apologize.

Creativity loves alone time.

Men don’t know what to do with black lipstick.

Dry January could change your life.

Sick likes to be with sick.

What is a femme’s love language? Gifts.

The couple made history with the first successful “shared motherhood.”

Emma Willman is a rare talent and comedic force to be reckoned with.

You just might fall in love.

Are you feeling super defensive about the title of this essay?

A little bit of magic and a lot of 4 AM talks about feelings.

Is this your first year attending the legendary Dinah Shore? Are you FREAKING OUT?

Lesbians love us some processing.

Surviving high maintenance when you’re low maintenance.

Eat dinner, jackass.

Lesbians, this is a HUGE undertaking.

Be nice, be real, be sexy AF.

A seasoned lez tells it like it is.

Love is nuanced.

A guide to setting yourself free.

The anxious babe’s guide to fighting off PANIC.

So many ways to come out! Try them all!

After a lifetime of being a doormat, coming out seems combative.

You deserve to get all dolled up for you—and only you.

These girls can be *extremely* be territorial.

Do you know how many times I’ve fervently prayed that it thunderstorms the day of that fabulous lesbian pool party, just so I can avoid the trauma of the bikini?

Am I anxious for all the Pride parties I have to attend and pass out magazines to smokin’ hot lesbians? UM, YEAH. But I have a game plan.

It’s a lesbian rite of passage.

Pro tip: Contain your drunkness.

A cautionary tale from a seasoned lesbian.

I’m having anxiety about having anxiety.

It’s not a rejection if you don’t even know the person.

For the love of Lana Del Rey, BREAK UP!

No one wants to break up poolside in Palm Springs. No one.

Happy snow day dykes!