queer sex and dating

FROM THE ARCHIVES: Riding in cars with bois.

FROM THE ARCHIVES: The game begins. I chase the ball instead of my thoughts. I sweat the way I’ve started to at night, my body washing all of its parts that used to hold her. The plate of my chest, the crook of my arm, and the crevice of my thighs all weep as I sleep. 

There’s explosive diversity in each of us.

How do you wash away intimate memories?

I’m still poly, regardless of whom I’m seeing. 

“It’s like, if you’re going to buck society’s expectations to date the gender you really want to, why not go all out and create the exact relationship you want?”

Luckily, people can totally change.

STOP HAUNTING.

Are you feeling super defensive about the title of this essay?

But you still want to be *the* pretty girl.

The worst thing that ever happened to me, EVER.

You might want to invite your next date over for an “L Word” and Chill session.

Let her be wild.

What’s your fantasy, babe?

Be nice, be real, be sexy AF.

Misconceptions about polyamory, debunked.

I LOVE ME A POWER LESBIAN.

What if the sex gets boring?

The moment someone is interested in Aries, they lose interest.

Hey baby, what’s your sign?

At first, it feels like that can’t eat, can’t sleep, can’t breathe without them kind of love.

How do I know if I’m moving too fast? Is scissoring real? How do I keep my cool?

Pro tip: Contain your drunkness.

When you finally leave to go be gross in peace.

Once my tears started, I couldn’t stop.

My editor: Aren’t you exhausted? Me: YES.

It’s the lesbian circle of life.

There are few things crueler than thinking you’re dating someone when you’re not.

I’m wearing sexy lingerie, you can pay for the cheese plate.

Spoiler Alert: I cried.

You can read the vibes when a little ~arm touching~ is appropriate.

You Tinder on the toilet.

It was the best and worst sexual experience of my life!

I used to hate it. Now I’m obsessed.

Winter can be very romantic.

Dating anxiety is cancelled for 2018.