Conscious erotic intimacy can be a means of liberating ourselves from the constraints of oppressive standards, building deeper connections, and having more fulfilling intimate experiences with ourselves and our partner(s).

The cis-heteronormative standard has lead many of us to believe that the only way to have sex is in a cis-heteronormative way, which can create barriers for anyone.

In this workshop, Bear and Fifi will define the concept of “Erotic intimacy” as a way of perceiving sex differently from the cis-heteronormative standard, and inviting intentionality, fluidity, and non-conformist principles into your sensual experiences.

This workshop is for anyone and everyone – those who are feeling blocked or barred around erotic intimacy, folks looking to expand their experience of erotic intimacy, the sex pros who want to add dimension to their repertoire, those who are unsure of where they are, and folks who are just curious.

The event is in person at Hacienda Studio in Bushwick, Brooklyn. Hacienda requires proof of two COVID vaccines for entry to Hacienda Studio. Masks are optional. Doors open at 7:00 PM and close at 7:45 PM. We ask you try to arrive on time!

This event will also be livestreamed and recorded. The recording will be sent out to ticket holders after the event.

The livestream link and address info is sent in your ticket confirmation email and in reminder emails leading up to the event. If you’re unsure of how to find us, please contact us at members@wearehacienda.com before the day of the event to ensure we have time to get back to you.

Educator Bios

Kabir Brown (Bear) (he/him) is a Black queer transgender man, born and raised in Brooklyn, New York. He has 7 years of experience being a mentor and coach to a variety of different communities and demographics. A clinical case manager for underserved communities, and a private intimacy coach + sex positive space curator, he uses his professional background and intersectional experience of identities to create affirming spaces for his clients.

Sofia Mojica (Fifi) (she/her) is a pansexual Puerto-Rican cis woman from The Bronx, NY. She has 6 years of experience as an erotic healer, a mentor and coach, and sex positive space curator. Using trauma-informed neo-tantric techniques, spiritual technologies, and somatic exercises, Fifi guides her clients to develop compassion toward themselves and remove barriers they may have around sex, intimacy, connecting to their physical bodies, and experiencing joy.

Together they provide private coaching services to individuals and coupled/partnered clients. They run monthly workshops, which cover a range of topics pertaining to intimacy, communication, and relationship dynamics.

Their mission is to support people in designing and creating the kind of intimacy they crave for themselves.