Advice for Lesbian, Bi and Queer Women

Sure, Valentine’s Day is about love, but mostly, it’s about candy.

Jealousy in polyamory is a common concern. How your own unique heart navigates it may determine whether polyamory is a good choice for you. 

Anna Joy, who is based in the US, was facing the prospect of a winter snow storm. Meanwhile, I sat in the Australian summer heat, surrounded by the sounds of the morning birds chirping. 

We may have left 2020 behind us, but the year left many of us devastated.

If you’re by yourself this year but want to express your queer AF holiday cheer, here are a few ways to make the yuletide gay.

Here are some of our favorite sustainable gifts from Queer owned or associated businesses to give this December. 

Extended time spent at home means that we’re locked into our screens more than ever, and social media has become the place we turn to for, well, everything.

“I’ve spent my whole life trying to be in healthy non-hierarchical polyamorous relationships, and now that I am, the pandemic has me too scared to act on it.”

2020 has been a stressful enough year; there’s absolutely no reason to further torture yourself by risking Covid to spend time with people you don’t want to see.

If we believe in the practice of activism, we can improve our world.

With the 2020 Presidential election a week away, it’s time to get serious about the issues and how who you’re voting for affects them.

Spirit Halloween is great for everything from basic witch to slightly niche costumes–and it’s especially great for bringing life and commerce into FOR LEASE buildings in midtown–and possibly the White House someday.

I think the most sex positive thing I’ve ever done was naming that sex is something that just isn’t important to me!  

It’s just a quiet little thing, like a kitten wrapped up in a blanket. I expected fireworks, either the violent kind or the celebratory kind, but there is nothing but the quiet of the evening, heavy around our ears.

“One of the many times I realized I was a lesbian was when I was in the throes of a high school threesome.”

These times have been trying, there’s no getting around it.

Wearing mascara? It’s going to streak.

There’s explosive diversity in each of us.

The truth is, there is no right or wrong answer.

I cherish every part of me, even when it’s hard.

“I wish I had a strong, beautiful representation of what it meant to be a trans woman. I wish that the popular girl — the girl who gets the guy, the girl who gets the crown — was trans.”

We all know lesbians are known for “overprocessing” (if there is such thing!) and talking about our feelings ad nauseam. But guess what? It’s fundamental to a healthy relationship.

Drink responsibly, babes.

The castle I call home has crumbled.

Something just *clicked.*

So what does this empty space mean? Does it mean you’ve fallen through the cracks?

This is the time to redesign our lives. There is no right way to practice self-care.

Lesbian bed death can truly come back from the dead.

Not only did I have a marijuana-seeking dog, he chose to eat roaches. Did he not deem himself worthy of the plump buds next to the sad, sorry, limp joint remnants? Did he need counseling?

While this summer certainly doesn’t look like the summers of our past, we can still have a little fun!

I liked the way the word lesbian rolled off my tongue and “angry” described exactly how I felt.

Here is a secret I learned from many many summers without a pool because I wasn’t a cool rich kid: Slip N Slide.

In the words of Audre Lorde, “Without community, there is no liberation.”

If you are young, non-binary, and black, you are the ultimate revolutionary.

FROM THE ARCHIVES: Tinder confirmed that I am a big ol’ homo.

Be. A. TEASE. For we all want what doesn’t ~come~ easily.