A Queer Gift Guide For Your Kinky Valentine

We wish you a steamy & beautiful Valentine’s Day.

Babes, Valentine’s Day is right around the corner. The day of extra-loving is coming up super soon and that means it’s time to shop around for you bae, your friends-with-benefits, your sex partners, or your girlfriend.

As your resident sex educator, I wanted to let y’all know about some of my absolute favorite kinky gifts to give around this time of year. I love that Valentine’s Day reminds all to integrate a little more ~love~ into our lives during the dark depths of winter. It’s easy to get in a sexual rut during these cold months — allow these new toys to be a gift to both of y’all to add a little spice to your regular play.

CBD Lube

Foria AwakenPhoto by Foria

If you and your boo are 4/20 friendly — this is the perfect gift for V-Day. It’s an all-natural lube that includes CBD oil that will leave you both feeling sensational. When you use this lube, it amplifies your usual orgasms to the next level. It’s long lasting so it will continue the pleasurable orgasm feels as you get it on till dawn.

A Bouquet Of Roses Turned Flogger

Pink roses

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I know it’s not just me who has this kink, y’all. Turn the traditional bouquet of roses into the perfect sexy gift as you flog your bae (or take turns) with some thorny, soft and sensual roses. It also makes for stunning photos/videos if y’all are exhibitionists.

Fisting Mitten

Renegade Rubber Long Latex Fisting MittenPhoto by Love Honey

Now that you all know the details of how to fist — it’s time to get it on. Not only will this glove make the process easy and smooth for you, it’s also sexy AF to wear.

Leather Corset

I am absolutely obsessed with this leather corset from Bijoux Indiscrets. Not pictured above are the cuffs and leash it comes with. This is an absolute dream because your boo can wear it out on your V-Day date, and then you can tie her up with it later on in the evening.

Hemp Bondage Rope

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This natural rope slides over bare skin comfortably. Features a 6mm weave with three-strand twist design and reinforced ends to prevent unraveling. I mean, just look at how stunning it looks in the photo above. If you and your Valentine like to partake in bondage, this is the dream gift. You can spend all of February taking turns tying each other up.

Latex Thigh Highs

Photo by BrightAndShinyLatex

I didn’t even know I needed these latex thigh highs until I found them. And then I needed them right away. I am envisioning this as a gift for your play party partner. Just imagine how hot she’d look rolling up to the next Submit Party.

Creepyyeha Bra

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Creepyyeha is my favorite lingerie designer because they’re so creative. The innovative way they imagine sexy apparel is so unique. And doesn’t your boo deserve the best?! Their bras are amazing because they can be worn in an everyday outfit. Pair it for date night with high waisted jeans and some booties.

Partition Cage Skirt

Partition Cage SkirtPhoto by Leather Coven

Leather Coven is queer owned and all their products are handmade for <em>you</em>. That means that they all fit perfectly since you send in your measurements. Does your bae deserve to lounge around in a beautiful leather skirt and devourer delicious chocolates all afternoon? If yes, then go ahead and purchase this for her.

Tassel Flogger

Maze – Black WhipPhoto by Bijoux Indiscrets

“Caress the skin or punished with pleasure with the whip MAZE.” I can attest that this whip is as good as it looks. Though the flogger is small, it is mighty in impact. The perfect tiny addition to your bedroom collection. It’s also very portable if you attend play parties and want to have your own flogger on deck to use with bae.

I wish you all a steamy and beautiful Valentine’s Day with whoever you’re spending it with! xoxo