Wellness

Most days, I feel like shouting at the top of my lungs: “WHERE ARE ALL THE GAY INDIANS?”

“I’ve spent my whole life trying to be in healthy non-hierarchical polyamorous relationships, and now that I am, the pandemic has me too scared to act on it.”

It’s up to a younger generation to figure out what the current iteration of a dyke bar should look like.

The LGBTQ+ community will always feel like a family to me. It will always feel like home.

I will be missing America on Thanksgiving. There may not be pumpkin pie, or scarves or mittens. But there will be food shared among family and friends, and gratitude spoken to each other.

2020 has been a stressful enough year; there’s absolutely no reason to further torture yourself by risking Covid to spend time with people you don’t want to see.

Now was a moment to breathe; I was trying to remember that. But I wasn’t so sure I was ready to dance yet. 

Friends say, “I love you,” but really, do they? If they support the policies that treat me like I’m less than them, do they love me?

If we believe in the practice of activism, we can improve our world.

With the 2020 Presidential election a week away, it’s time to get serious about the issues and how who you’re voting for affects them.

As the elections continue to speed in our direction like a runaway train, it is becoming more and more clear how much we need a complete overhaul.

I am tired of being afraid. I am tired of  keeping my voice at a decibel level only those close to me can hear; I am tired of keeping my head down, of keeping my opinions to myself; I am tired of disappearing.

Should the Supreme Court uphold the ACA, and should Republicans hold either the White House, Senate, or both, it’s likely that they’ll continue to chip away at protections afforded by the ACA.

I think the most sex positive thing I’ve ever done was naming that sex is something that just isn’t important to me!  

You know how sometimes you try a new haircut and it’s freaking great and then…maybe weeks, months, or even years later, you realize it’s not really fitting your style anymore?

No amount of judgement will keep us off the field. 

“It sucks. It feels like I’m being silenced and my voice doesn’t matter.”

It seems almost obvious, especially for a laymen’s understanding of tech, that this specific realm of the world would have no qualms transitioning to a virtual space. And in many ways, that’s correct. But what do we lose in the spaces in between? 

This ongoing humanitarian crisis is all of our responsibility. 

Though some people totally missed the point of my coming out, I realized that I didn’t care.

It’s just a quiet little thing, like a kitten wrapped up in a blanket. I expected fireworks, either the violent kind or the celebratory kind, but there is nothing but the quiet of the evening, heavy around our ears.

“One of the many times I realized I was a lesbian was when I was in the throes of a high school threesome.”

This Sunday, as we honor National Coming Out Day, LA Pride is asking you to do more than just celebrate being out. They also want you to run.

These times have been trying, there’s no getting around it.

Lesbians make the world go ’round.

Wearing mascara? It’s going to streak.

Thanks to “Folklore,” I now see myself in Taylor’s music.

When I think of you–and I think of you often–the word “and” comes to mind. I look at you, your work, your energy, and I see and, and, and.

With “PANTS”, all of our “L Word” reunion dreams come true every week.

Got news to share? A message for an ex? A thought to spare? Call & leave us a voicemail. We’re listening.

There’s explosive diversity in each of us.

The truth is, there is no right or wrong answer.

I cherish every part of me, even when it’s hard.

“Maybe a fire will come, maybe a war, maybe death or loss of mind, but today was good.”

“I wish I had a strong, beautiful representation of what it meant to be a trans woman. I wish that the popular girl — the girl who gets the guy, the girl who gets the crown — was trans.”

We all know lesbians are known for “overprocessing” (if there is such thing!) and talking about our feelings ad nauseam. But guess what? It’s fundamental to a healthy relationship.