Weekly Horoscopes For Queer Women: Are You Gaslighting Yourself?

This week is all about healing. With yourself, with your community, and in your home.

Weekly Horoscopes For Queer Women: Monday, December 4

Things are fading this week. After the exhausting Full Moon, we’ll be tapering off a bit and we’ll all need to recuperate in the best way we know how. Chiron retrogrades this week and Chiron is our knot, that bundle of sensitive nerves which tell us where not to poke. Provoking our Chiron might make us double over in pain and lash out. There’s an inferiority complex there because we feel like we were constantly told that this is one place where we weren’t acceptable. Screaming at ourselves to tell us that we are acceptable will only gaslight ourselves. We have to validate our own securities first and acknowledge the realness of the pain.

As Mercury goes right over Saturn again, we’ll keep questioning what work we were put onto this Earth to do. It might be time to make some real changes in our lives but we’re not there yet — right now, just contemplate what it is you want to be different. Don’t make any changes yet but hold the thought steady so you can aim it later. Feel free to consider what might be wrong with how you’re defining your work right now so that you have an orientation in which to aim later. Right now, just align yourself.

This week is the period between the Full Moon and the Last Quarter Moon and, as usual, this means we’re going to have to dwindle our efforts to avoid exhaustion. Figure out who your ideals are serving and what your positioning has to do with your very body this week.

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(These horoscopes are more accurate if you look at your rising sign, sun sign, and moon sign! If you don’t know your time of birth, sun and moon signs are fine.)

♈️ Aries ♈️

Time to have something within you change what is outside of you. Literally — how do the routine aches and pains in your body affect what you can imagine and what you are motivated to do? Do you feel like the investment of your energy has a “point”? It’s time to adjust your sleep cycle and recalibrate your waking life so that you can be on top of it all.

♉️ Taurus ♉️

This week is about building your confidence. What do you allow yourself to want and be and how does that affect the way you love? Hold hands with someone this week or yourself. Be there for yourself first and foremost. If the ways you exchange power is not fair to either you or the people around you, this week you will know. It will erode you.

♊️ Gemini ♊️

This week you’re healing what crosses you and that is a standard of perfection. It helps you to represent your healing methods and promote them so that others can take part so that you’re able to acknowledge and heal your own pain by glimpsing it through other people. Let yourself truly get to know the people that matter to you and make sure all your partnerships are fair.

♋️ Cancer ♋️

Plan to take a trip at some point so that you can jump out of any holes you find yourself in. You like your holes because it makes you feel snug but you feel the need to learn something and explore right now. You might use your powers of imagination to day dream and get lost in a fictional world in order to heal. Prioritize time for doing that so you can compartmentalize.

♌️ Leo ♌️

This is a private time of life for you in which you’re reaching inside. Sex may be healing at this moment but what it’s actually healing is an internal relationship between you and yourself. This is your week to remind yourself to love yourself for being just you and adjust your definition of what is good so that it fosters this self love. Wrap your arms around yourself.

♍️ Virgo ♍️

You’re extremely interested in your home right now, whether that is because something is right or something is wrong, maybe both at once. This week, change how you see yourself so that it gives you more security. Other people are healing for you to be around and people are good to you right now. You might not realize what an impact they have on your until later.

♎️ Libra ♎️

This is the most important week for you to take care of your mental health. You have to give yourself a lot of time to sleep this week or you’ll start to feel divided within yourself. Take an entire week to rest and don’t feel bad about it. Record your dreams and do some exploring. If you can’t take any time off, don’t push yourself to talk too much. Hear your own thoughts first.

♏️ Scorpio ♏️

Your friends heal you right now. Having big dreams of what you want to do and who you want to be is healing to you right now. Dream about the future and have fun with what you can do. Widen your perspective so that you’re able to see yourself doing as many different things as possible. Grasp the possibility of what hasn’t happened yet and it will be worthwhile.

♐️ Sagittarius ♐️

Narrow your world so that you’re able to focus on something and get it done. Something also crosses you this week and something needs to be healed at home. Ask yourself who you’re here to serve and you’ll be able to establish your visions concretely. Get rid of any martyrdom impulses you have so that you’re able to see your service as essential.

♑️ Capricorn ♑️

You’re changing your wider frame of how you contain your thoughts so that it can be bigger and you can fit more inside. Don’t focus on what you know but how you know it. Change the ways that you learn information in order to invest in your lifelong education. This is a week in which you’re training to be a true student of life and it’s your ideas that will heal you.

♒️ Aquarius ♒️

What do you define as good? This week, you’ll find yourself changing your mind about goodness, health, and wealth. It’s like you have a ton of feelings and can only express them in abstract ways to all of humanity. Take care of the personal side of how your emotions come out and you’ll find something that changes your image of the future.

♓️ Pisces ♓️

Become someone who heals other people in order to heal yourself. This will involve a long process of listening to other people and listening to the way you listen. What can you hear and what are things that you just can’t hear, no matter how hard you try? It’s a great week to put pen to paper and get some things out. You have a spark of creativity right now.